Nollywood actor Deyemi Okanlawon has spoken out amid the ongoing online debate about rape and social media backlash. The actor made it clear that when women say “stop raping women”, the only acceptable response is agreement.

Deyemi shared his thoughts on X after reposting a recent statement by singer Simi, who had been facing criticism over some old tweets.

The issue began after Simi said that almost every woman she knows has experienced sexual assault at some point in their lives. Her statement sparked intense reactions online. As the conversation grew, some users went back to posts she made in 2012.

Those resurfaced tweets led to further criticism, with some people questioning her position. In response, Simi defended herself. She said her old posts were being misunderstood and taken out of context.

She explained that the tweets were written in 2012 when she was 23 years old and helping her mother run a daycare. According to her, nothing she wrote was inappropriate or perverse.

Simi also made her stance clear again, saying: “I said stop raping women. I stand by it.”

Deyemi’s reaction appeared to support that position. By speaking up, he reinforced the view that calls to end rape should not be distracted by deflection or what some describe as “whataboutism.”

Deyemi Okanlawon, 44, is one of Nollywood’s well-known leading actors. He began his screen career in the early 2010s and has featured in major productions such as Omo Ghetto: The Saga, King of Boys, and Blood Sisters.

Deyemi Okanlawon’s comments add another voice to the wider discussion about sexual assault and online accountability. His message is simple and direct. When women call for rape to stop, the response should not be debate or distraction, but agreement.

As conversations around sexual violence continue online, public figures are likely to keep weighing in, shaping how the issue is discussed in the public space.

Reality TV star Tope Adenibuyan, better known as Teddy A, has shared how false claims that he abused his wife deeply affected him and his family.

Speaking on the WithChude Podcast, Teddy A said he was shocked when he first saw reports online accusing him of beating his wife, actress Bamike “Bambam.” The claims, which spread on social media, even alleged that he assaulted her while she was pregnant.

Teddy A said the day the story broke started like any other.

He said, “When they said I was beating my wife, which was a lot. I woke up, went downstairs, my wife was there, she was watching a movie, she was pregnant and laughing”.

He explained that he had no idea where the story came from. While his wife was at home watching a movie, his phone began buzzing with notifications.

“Then I checked my phone and saw my notifications going off. I was like, I didn’t drop any content that’s trending, what’s going on, what did I do, or what are they saying now? As I went through the comments, my wife became very emotional and kept asking who did this. I honestly didn’t know, maybe it was one ex somewhere or village people trying to come after me”, he continued.

According to him, the sudden wave of accusations left both of them confused and upset. He said the rumor quickly gained attention online and became a topic of discussion across social media platforms.

Teddy A also spoke about how he handled the situation at the time. He revealed that when he reached out to his manager for advice, he was told not to respond publicly.

“I called my manager to ask what we should do, and he told me not to fuel the fire and just let it go. At the time, I didn’t really see the damage staying silent would do to my reputation. Even when my wife and I post ourselves, people still comment and ask if I’m sure I don’t beat my wife. Why would they say that? Why on earth would they do that? It affected me because it made people see me in a way that wasn’t true,” he added.

He said staying silent seemed like the right move at first, but he later realized that the claims continued to follow him. Even now, he says some people still question him whenever he shares photos or videos with his wife online.

The reality star did not name anyone behind the allegations but made it clear that the experience took an emotional toll on him.

Teddy A’s comments highlight the lasting impact false reports can have, especially when they spread quickly online. Although he chose to remain silent at the time, he now admits the rumors affected how some people see him.

For now, he and Bambam continue to share their lives publicly, even as the claims resurface from time to time.